Yesterday I drove through snowy weather to do an adoption event for cats and dogs. I spent the day carrying an obese, and overly attached, dachshund through Petsmart while cleaning up cat poo and speaking with the public.
My feet were killing, I smelled awful, and I was covered head to toe in animal hair.
I posted this status after I got home and finished cleaning up the house.
My dad has a much younger girlfriend (she is 21, I am 30) who doesn’t like me. She posted the 2nd status ten minutes after I posted mine.
This is not the first time she has done this. My father refuses to do anything and insists on bringing her into my home every single chance he gets. He doesn’t understand why I ask him not to bring her around me and my kids.
I’m now going public with this.
The third picture is my response to her bullshit.
Today her page is down. I can only imagine that it is because someone messaged her and called her out on her bullshit.
I won’t go into the age difference between my father and this girl or how it makes me feel about my father. That isn’t relevant and that isn’t why she’s not welcome in my home.
The last time she came over here she actually hit my dog and started a fight with my brother. She has also told my children extremely inappropriate things.
I am not a bad person for refusing this girl entry into my home. I have been very nice to her in the past but I have a responsibility as a mother not to allow people like this into our private space.
I am considering filing a restraining order just to make it very clear to my father that I do not want her in my home, around my children, or at the events I attend. I feel this will allow me to spend time with my family without worrying about her showing up.